You're Not Broken. You're Just Operating From an Outdated Identity.

...And it's time to deprogram the "good girl" conditioning, rewire your subconscious, and embody your full power.
NICE TO MEET YOU

I'm Lydia Bachmeier

I help women deprogram the "good girl" conditioning that keeps them playing small—because I spent years trying to convince myself I could be happy in a life that was slowly killing me.

I left my corporate job after my son was born, thinking entrepreneurship and motherhood would be the freedom I'd been craving. And in some ways, it was. We built multiple businesses. From the outside, it looked like I had it all figured out.

But I was drowning in a toxic relationship, making myself smaller every single day, trying SO hard to make it work. I convinced myself that if I just tried harder, loved better, did more—it would get better. That's what "good girls" do, right? We stay. We fix. We sacrifice ourselves to keep everyone else comfortable.

It took me years to admit the truth: I was miserable. And in 2023, that relationship ended. I moved home with my kids and started completely over.

What followed was two years of celibacy, deep healing, and the hardest identity work I've ever done. I had to face every "good girl" belief I'd been carrying: that the end of a relationship meant failure, that I should have tried harder, that wanting more made me selfish.

I used astrology to understand why I'd stayed so long in something that hurt me. I used hypnotherapy to rewire the subconscious patterns that made me believe I wasn't allowed to choose myself. And slowly, I became someone I didn't recognize—in the best way.

I started dating again. I reconnected with an old flame. I rebuilt my business as a marketing and branding consultant. I got in the best shape of my life. And at 38, I'm hotter, more powerful, and more unapologetically MYSELF than I've ever been.

That's what happens when you stop trying to make yourself fit into someone else's version of who you should be. That's what happens when you deprogram the conditioning and actually become HER.

 

MY APPROACH

As a certified hypnotherapist, NLP practitioner, and astrologer, I combine three powerful elements to create lasting transformation:

Understand Your Blueprint

We use your astrology chart to identify your energetic wiring and the specific patterns you've been repeating—so you can finally understand WHY you stayed, why you chose what you chose, why you keep doing what you do.

Rewire at the Subconscious Level

Through clinical hypnotherapy, we reprogram the beliefs that were installed by your family, your relationships, society—the ones that told you to stay small, to try harder, to sacrifice yourself. Because affirmations don't reach the subconscious—but hypnotherapy does.

Embody Your Power

This isn't theory. It's identity transformation that shows up in how you speak, set boundaries, choose yourself, and walk through the world. You don't just "learn" to be her—you BECOME her.

MY MISSION

I believe every woman has the right to choose herself—even when it means disappointing others, breaking the rules, or walking away from what no longer serves her.

I'm here to help ambitious women break self-sabotage patterns, deprogram "good girl" conditioning, and embody their full power. Not someday. Now.

When I'm not working with clients, you can find me exploring nature or at a sports game with my two kids, or diving into a good book (I'm a sucker for a good romantasy series ❤️‍🔥).

I'm deeply committed to continuous learning, growth, and helping women like you create a life that feels aligned, powerful, and truly yours.

✨ Ready to break the pattern? ✨

Transformation isn't just about changing how you think—it's about changing who you ARE at the identity level. And I'm here to help you deprogram the conditioning, rewire your subconscious, and embody the woman you're meant to be.

WORK WITH ME

Credentials

Lydia Bachmeier is board certified in the following areas: NLP Practitioner, TIME Techniques Practitioner, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Emotional Freedom Techniques Practitioner, Success Coach.

Lydia Bachmeier is board certified through an independent review board at the International Board of Clinical Practitioners, member number 11234. You can call the IBCP at 888-731-8376 to verify her credentials.