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If You're Not Flirting Based On Their Chart…
How Do You Expect To Attract Anything But Mixed Signals And Bare Minimum Energy?!

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The Astrology of Attraction 

 

Venus-sign flirting. Moon sign icks decoded.
Emotional compatibility cheat codes—so you can stop guessing and start attracting aligned AF love.

✨ Make them feel emotionally safe—not just impressed
✨ Know what to text (and when to pull back)
✨ Feel confident dating as your full, magnetic self

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Why Astrology Is the Real Reason You’re Still Single, Getting Ghosted, or Settling for Meh  S*x 

Dating is an energy game—and you’re either amplifying attraction or repelling it.

After my ten-year relationship ended, I resisted that truth for two whole years. I was terrified of dating again—paralyzed by the fear of being “too much,” texting the wrong thing, or catching feelings first. I shrank. I shapeshifted into the most palatable version of myself I could find.

Spoiler: it didn’t work. And it definitely wasn’t sexy.

Be honest—have you done this too?

Most people have no idea how many heartbreaks and dead-end situationships they could’ve dodged—if they just understood emotional compatibility… and how to read someone’s chart like it’s a damn dating manual.

Here’s your cosmic hint:

When the vibe doesn’t turn into something real… it’s rarely because they didn’t like you.

Maybe they didn’t feel emotionally safe. Maybe your Venus signs clashed. Maybe their Moon sign didn’t get what it needed. Maybe you texted in a way that didn’t land.

That’s not a “no.” That’s a “not yet.”

Not until I feel seen. Not until I know you get me. Not until this feels safe enough to open up.

THIS is why...

99% of dating disasters aren’t because of chemistry—they’re because of unmet emotional needs.

You are not too much. Your standards are not too high. You’re not doing it wrong.

BUT... if you’re not flirting in alignment with your chart—or theirs—you might as well be texting in a language they don’t speak.

Here’s the realest truth no one tells you:

People never fall in love from fear. But they do fall in love from emotional resonance.

And once you know how to create that? Everything changes.

But most people don’t. So they blame the vibes, the timing, the apps…
Or ghost before they get ghosted.

But...

an unmet emotional need?
It’s like the tension before a rose ceremony on The Bachelor—no one’s naming it, but everyone feels it... and someone’s definitely getting sent home.

Maybe you’ve done this too:
You play it cool. Don’t text first. Don’t ask too much. Just wait... and manifest that they come back around.

But be honest... how’s that working out for you?

Here’s the real question:
How are you supposed to get a yes to love, connection, or anything real—if you haven’t even figured out how they’re emotionally wired??

You won’t. Because emotional misalignment is the #1 reason things fizzle—fast.

Instead, I see people stuck in what I call...

"Loud & Thirsty" Attraction:

(it’s giving chaos, not connection)

Instead of showing up with aligned energy and astro-informed communication, loud & thirsty daters rely on:

  • Texting more instead of texting better

  • Generic openers or “wyd”s that hit like a dead fish

  • Posting thirst traps, praying the right person reads between the lines (or just likes the story)

  • Screaming “I’m the prize!” to themselves before a date...but not knowing what actually creates safety or magnetism

Yeah, it gets attention.
But it doesn’t get devotion.
It doesn’t build emotional intimacy.
It definitely doesn’t lead to mutual obsession. 

What actually does create real connection?
Emotional safety. Mutual recognition. Energetic alignment.

And spoiler: You can’t fake that by just posting thirst traps and pretending not to care.

The truth is:

Being "Loud and Thirsty" Will NEVER Actually Create The Emotional Connection You’re Craving.

Which means they’ll never feel seen—or safe.

And I KNOW you’re not here for the bare minimum. You’re here for the big, beautiful, butterflies-in-your-stomach kind of thing.

But how the heck will someone feel safe choosing you, if they don’t feel like you understand what makes them feel safe in the first place?

Because even if they like you, even if the attraction is there, if one emotional red flag gets triggered—they’ll pull away.

And trust me: every connection, no matter how spicy the chemistry, still has emotional needs.

So What Exactly Is  An Emotional Block?

Let’s break it down.

Emotional Block (n.): a hidden belief, buried fear, or subconscious narrative that stops someone from going all in—even when they want to.

More simply: it’s the reason someone who’s into you… suddenly stops texting.

And here’s the twist:

Emotional resistance only shows up in connections that have potential. Otherwise, there’s nothing to get scared of!

It works like this:

Your match is basically an iPhone on lock screen—there’s depth underneath, but until you understand their emotional code (aka their Moon + Venus sign), you’re just tapping at glass.

They’re stuck in a fear loop—old wounds, anxious thoughts, protective patterns—all trying to keep them “safe.”

Your energy? It’s the password.

The way you flirt, the way you text, the way you get their emotional wiring… that’s what gets them to open up.

But if you’re not speaking the right emotional language? They stay locked tight—even if the connection is real. 

So Here’s Why They’re Not Choosing You

(even when it feels like they want to):

They can’t step out of their fear loop long enough to feel that you’re the safe, soul-aligned connection they’ve been craving.
And instead of addressing the emotional mismatch, most people try to fix it by being louder, sexier, more mysterious.

When what actually works is… helping them feel safe.

Helping them feel understood. Helping them feel like your energy is where they can finally exhale.

But when you do  understand their emotional wiring?

You stop guessing. You stop clinging.

And suddenly, you’re the one they feel safe enough to choose—without you needing to chase.

That’s why I always say:

"The shift starts with your energy!"

Because when it comes to love, desire, and attraction—you can’t call in something new from the same fear-based energy that created the old patterns.

If you’ve ever found yourself saying:

  • “I don’t want to get hurt again.”

  • “I’m not sure they actually like me.”

  • “I don’t want to come on too strong…”

Then you know what it feels like to be stuck in your own emotional loop—your own box, if you will.

Here’s the truth no one tells you:
That little voice in your head? The hesitation? The self-protective stories?

They’re not wrong.
They’re just scared.
And your matches feel the exact same way.

Because behind every slow reply, fade-out, or “bad texter” excuse…
is someone who does feel the spark—but is afraid of what it might mean.

They want connection.
They’re just not sure if it’s safe yet.

And that’s where the real work begins.

Inside The Astrology of Attraction, you’ll start to notice

Two Types Of Emotional Resistance:

Type #1

Universal Fears:

These are the classics. The emotional stories that keep everyone playing small in love.

  • “I’m not ready.”
  • “I’ve been hurt before.”
  • “I’m too busy for anything serious.”
  • “What if I catch feelings and they don’t?”

They show up in every connection—no matter your sign, age, or how good the chemistry is.

This eBook helps you spot these patterns when they’re showing up—so you can stop taking them personally and start responding with energy that creates emotional safety instead of pressure.

Type #2

Chart-Specific Fears:

 These are the fears that show up based on someone’s Moon and Venus signs—and they’re lowkey running the whole show.

  • A Capricorn Moon might fear losing control
  • A Pisces Venus might fear not being chosen
  • A Leo Moon might crave constant validation
  • A Scorpio Venus might need time before trusting at all

When you understand these placements, suddenly the “mixed signals” make sense—and the way forward becomes way more clear.

This eBook gives you the insight to understand how they’re wired… so you can communicate and connect in a way that helps them feel safe to lean in instead of pulling away.

Ready to stop overthinking your love life?

Start texting (and dating) like someone who knows what they’re doing.
The Astrology of Attraction eBook — $27, instant download.

Yes, I Need This Cheat Code

"But, Lydia, What If They’re Just Not That Into Me?"

Okay, hot take:

If someone’s truly disinterested, they’ll disappear.
No hesitation. No resistance. No inner turmoil. Just a quiet exit, stage left.

But if you're getting hot and cold? Inconsistency?
That’s not rejection—that’s emotional resistance. And resistance only shows up… when there’s something real at stake.

Which means: there’s a way in.
You just haven’t found it yet.

👇Want to melt the resistance and flip the energy in your favor?

This eBook shows you exactly what to say—and how to say it—to build emotional safety and spark attraction that actually sticks.

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These Are the Real Stories Behind Their Mixed Signals:

“I’m scared to start over.”
“I don’t want to get hurt again.”
“I’ve never felt like this before… it’s a lot.”
“I’m not used to someone actually getting me.”

Your job isn’t to chase.
It’s to speak to the version of them that wants to say yes—but needs help softening their fears.

And that is what this eBook gives you.

It’s Time You Finally Learn How To Decode Emotional Resistance

So You Can Stop Overthinking And Start Attracting Aligned AF Connections

This eBook is going to blow your cosmic mind 🤯
with the real emotional insights and astro-backed strategies you wish someone taught you in health class (but hotter).

Introducing...

One Digital Guide That’ll Change How You Flirt, Text, And Attract—Forever.

By the time you finish reading The Astrology of Attraction, you’ll know:

  • My favorite text examples based on Venus sign vibes (yes, copy-paste-friendly)
  • The emotional needs, attraction patterns, and red-flag icks of every Moon and Venus sign
  • How to adjust your energy and approach—based on their chart (and yours)
  • Why you keep attracting certain patterns—and how to break the loop
  • What “I’m bad at texting” actually means based on their chart—and how to respond without overgiving
  • Plus: my signature Venus x Moon decoding combo so you can flirt ethically, text confidently, and connect deeply (without losing yourself in the process)

"This Is Great… But I’m Not Even Talking To Anyone Right Now!"

Okay, babe—yes, but let’s get real: that could change tomorrow.

The second you post a hot selfie, text back “haha maybe 😏,” or make eye contact with a cutie at Whole Foods—you’re already in the energy of attraction.

You don’t need a situationship, a Hinge match, or a 5-text streak to benefit from this knowledge.

You're already radiating something.
The question is… what energy are you radiating?

Because attraction doesn’t start when they ask you out.
It starts when they decide you feel different—safe, magnetic, unforgettable.

And that comes from how you carry yourself, how you connect, and whether your energy matches their emotional wiring.

So yeah—this eBook works even if you’re not “actively dating.”
It works if you’re healing, calling in something new, or just done entertaining people who can’t meet your energy.

This isn’t about playing games.
It’s about moving smarter and with intention—with astrology as your wingwoman.

And when the next potential connection shows up?

You’ll already be that girl who knows exactly how to flirt, text, and connect on a soul-deep level.

Let me ask you this:

How many more mixed-signal situations are you going to tolerate before you decide to date in a way that actually works for your energy?

This eBook will change the way you approach every match from here on out. And it’s just $27. 

You’re one hour away from understanding why things haven’t clicked—and what to do differently starting tonight.

THE

Astrology of Attraction

eBook

The truth?

You’re not too intense. You’re just emotionally intelligent.

You just need the language to match your energy.

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✨ A lifetime of “Wait… why didn’t anyone teach me this before?”

This is your sign.
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